Stress: What would you do?

It is all to much to handle just wat to much. I cant do it. My grandfather is dead. I will be trumatized if I go to the funnerl. My dad is ademant for me to go. My best friend is not allowed to come over. And I am not allowed to go over there since her brother is a creeper my grades are starting to slip. I am worried about this freedom of choice act. I will do something to stop it. At the funnerl I would see my half sister Bella since I see her so rarly. What would you do in my situation?

For one, about the grades, I wouldn't worry. Just work harder of future homework. That's what I'm currently doing. Talk with your teachers. In order to help you, you need to make yourself heard in their presence. I'm sure they'd understand your situation.

About the freedom of choice act, don't worry yet. You're probably too small to make a difference whatsoever.

As concerns the funeral: go. You cannot abandon you grandpa, even if he has left this world. Let your feelings show if you must; do not be afraid. Be brave, my friend, and do what you must.

You must prioritize with stress, and worrying about multitudes of problems will not help. Concentrate on one thing at a time, and give yourself time to think. Thinking is the only thing to get things straight again.

I agree with Kifu, and if you want, I can help you at school.

I must disagree with one thing though...

Kifu wrote:

About the freedom of choice act, don't worry yet. You're probably too small to make a difference whatsoever.

You are never to small. You can get involved and write a letter to the state rep. Cissa, you told me that you were worried that they wouldn't listen to your letter because you are a kid, but they must remember that you are a future voter so they need to respect everyone...